Things that go bump in the night

Certainly, at the age of fourty I finally have it all figured out...  Or do I?

I'm confident that we set our goals and work towards what we percieve as our perfect little worlds.  But realistically we're all wingin' it... Some just have better luck at it...

So far so good, but I do wonder sometimes how it all would have been had I chose door number two on a few occasions...